You got superlative advice from [b]confusedlover[/b]. I agree with all of it. The only thing I would underline and add is that it’s clear you are upset about the situation — just be careful not to project your upset and frustration on the wrong person. This other woman is not a problem — just a threat. Your boyfriend seems to be doing everything right since he is doing a work project with her and hasn’t cheated on you or given you any indiction he is going to cheat on you. In fact, this kind of experience can strengthen your relationship with your boyfriend. If a woman throws herself at him (and somewhere down the line this may happen), he will show you how much he is yours by not responding in a way that breaks you two up. So far, your boyfriend is doing everything right.
As [b]confusedlover[/b] recommended, show him how lucky he is to have you and not her, and reward him for his good behavior. 😎 Use this opportunity to grow closer to your boyfriend instead of allowing her to part you. The project will end, and when it does, she won’t be the same kind of thorn in your side any more.
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