I’m thinking this is a trick question. ๐
You’ve been in a relationship for three years with a man who you know and freely admit has trouble communicating emotions and committing. And, you say that you accept this — [i]but [/i]now you want him to be different. ๐
I think you understand his actions perfectly, but the real question isn’t about him. It’s about you. ๐
If you know he can’t commit, and you want someone who can commit, then why don’t you find someone who is more compatible and who can give you what you want — and vice versa? ๐ That you have separated “many times” over the three years makes it pretty clear that you’re not compatible.
You’re right — if he wants to see you on Memorial Day weekend, he’ll ask you out. He hasn’t, and you’re complicating this into something it isn’t, so you don’t have to deal with the reality.
I hope this helps. I know you want things to be different, but unless YOU change your behavior, they won’t be. ๐
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