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I am so lost right now

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    CKP1994
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    Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over 3 weeks now and I get the feeling I don’t make him happy. He usually doesn’t smile around me, he wont kiss me unless I beg him to, and he seems really distance. I am his new girlfriend after a break up from his girlfriend of 2 years, his first true love. She did him pretty bad and now whenever talk about being happy he says he cant let himself be happy but that hurts because I feel like I’m not good enough for him. I feel like because he doesn’t smile that he doesn’t really wanna be with me and that I’m not good enough to make him happy. I am falling hard for this guy but i am so lost on what to do. Do I call it quits or do I wait for him to let himself be happy?!

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    You’re not lost. You’re disappointed. It’s time for you to get your compass out and understand a few things that will help you learn where you actually stand:

    1. You’ve only been dating him for three weeks. This is the time when you get to know someone and decide if they’re a person you want to continue dating. If you’re falling for him, you’re not doing your job of deciding if he’s someone who’s right for you. So slow down and put your glasses back on. You want to date smart — not impulsively and poorly. 😉

    2. If he’s on the rebound, he’s not a good match for you because he’s not available. You want to date someone who’s ready to be in a relationship. Not someone who’s looking for a “place holder” until he is ready to date, then dumps you for someone he’s crazy about. And it doesn’t really sound like he’s crazy about you from what you’ve written, so there’s a very good chance he’s using you until someone better comes along, or until

    3. Never, EVER, beg a guy to kiss you! 😯 Desperation is not attractive, and if the only way he’ll kiss you is by your begging him, that means he’s not into you. 😳

    My advice is to accept the rejection you’re getting and decide to date someone who likes you! 😉

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