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    confused again
    Member #12,528

    I dated a guy my last year in undergrad and we were together for a few months. He kind of just ended things and within a few days was dating his ex again and they’ve been on and off since. My last contact with him was over a year ago. He was single at the time, but in a month or so he was back together with his ex because they were going to have a baby. I saw him last week. He had been trying to contact me, but had my old number. I saw the calls and texts he tried to send. It was good to be there and act like friends. It was a little shocked that he remembered really tiny details about me even still… and its 2 years after we broke up. He had also told me that things were not going well between him and the girl… which I didn’t really think much of it since they’ve been on and off for a while. Last night we were on the phone for hours talking about life, goals, the past. Then he asked how far I would have let him go that last time I saw him, like just kissing, or would I have let it go further. This was a year ago, so why is he asking now? I’m confused, and I feel like I might still have feelings for him. He is a great guy, but I’m concerned now because he is with the mother of his child and he’s bringing up our past.

    Opinions please!

    #13614
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    The fact that he remembers tiny details say that he is a genuine guy..
    but him asking you about how far would u have let him go..is a little wierd
    chances are that he might just be interested in sex ..probably because he’s bored of his life or rather the “family” life..with the baby
    i suggest you talk to him for a while..but only on friendly terms..
    and see if he talks abt the physical thing again..which will mean the obvious!

    #13554
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    No dont talk to him you will be just another stupid girl he can use. Plain and simple.

    #13812
    Ask April Masini
    Keymaster

    He’s turning the topic to sex because that’s what he’s interested in. There’s nothing here for you. Move on and find a guy who wants all of you, not just sex on the side.

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