[Sean117]

I’m 16 (I dont even know if I am allowed here but help me out) and I’m going to be a junior in high school I’m mainly asking for some analysis and some advice on what I can do. First of all In the begging of the school year I sat next to a girl simply because she was cute and caught my eye she’s 16 too..anyway as I sat next to her she tried to pass a paper to someone else but it was across from where I was sitting so I did the generous thing and I grabbed the paper and handed it across. I thought she would say something or at least give me a thanks. I tried to give eye contact too but didn’t give it she just looked somewhere else but she knew what I trying to do…So I told her ” You know its nice to say thanks when someone does something nice for you” I said it playfully and shot a smile, and she just said “thanks” that was it..So next day comes and she sits somewhere else, I didn’t care to much but what could it mean? As time went on she tired to stand next next me and she would be fixing herself like hair,etc… Another time she walked right up to me like if she wanted to say something, she stood in front of me (almost like at an angle) So I decided to say something I told her”hi” and she looked at the floor instantly then looked straight ahead but never game me any contact and she was tense, I’m guessing she was nervous because she said a small “hi” back I just left the area… Next time, in lunch I caught her staring at me., We stared at each other for a good couple seconds. Another time I was standing talking to my bud and she walks by me and bumps my elbow on purpose I know she did because there was a lot of space from where she was walking what could that mean? Anyway I never got a chance to meet her now I realized how much of an Idiot I was and I learned a lesson. As I never got to meet her school ended. I tried friend request and message her on Facebook I’m too old school for it so I don’t know if It was a good Idea. I just said how I didn’t get a chance to meet her etc..(she also changed stats form a relationship to single) and she ignored me I sent another one a week later this time I just said how I thought we were gonna be pals, but I said it playfully, I know she ignored me because she updated her stats as time went on. I didn’t mean to crawl on her but I saw a picture with her and some guy I guess it was her ex boyfriend, and she seemed fun and confident with that guy, and others too because I took notice within class. But at that time she was nervous with me what could that mean? So anyway school is gonna start up again what am I going to do when I see her? I don’t want to go up to her and say “Why have you been ignoring me”?

I’m really frozen up on what to do once I see her. Please excuse the elongated paragraph but I’m just trying to get an answer here, I don’t its a done deal in entirety but what can I do.

[casanovapt2]

Hey Sean,
Girls like guys that are confident and take initiative. These ‘signs’ that you mentioned could be attributed as indicators of interest. However, they are just that, without you doing anything about it, the situation with both of you would not amount to much.
It is now up to you to talk to her, and stir up a conversation, you could complement her on something such as her clothes etc (girls like it when you notice these things) and go from there. Be playful, funny and tease her, don’t be scared to show off your personality.
You could even tease her by calling her up on her playing ‘hard to get’. When you get courage to call girls up on things like this, it usually tens to lower their defenses.

Anyway, just remember that you’re the man, and the man takes charge, and when you set in your mind that you want something, then you go and get it. Do what it takes.

Good Luck

Casanovapt2

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Wow! [b]Casanovapt2[/b] said it all! I completely agree.

Don’t ask her why she’s ignoring you because that puts her on the defense, but do remember that you’re the guy, and you can compliment her, flirt with her and continue to be kind to her. She may take the bait! Or…. she may not and you’re no worse off.

If she sees you’re interested in other girls and they’re interested in you, too, she may become more interested in you. Women like guys who are popular, and good guys do finish last! I’m not suggesting you pour a drink on her head 😆 but I am suggesting that if she sees other girls think you’re attractive, she’s going to be more interested in you and probably give you a more positive response. That’s the way things work! 😉

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[Sean117]

Thanks for the replies and contributions 🙂

[Sean117]

Thanks for the replies 🙂, I see what I can do hopefully I see her again.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Good luck! 😉

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[casanovapt2]

Yeah, Good Luck, and let us know what happens 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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