[williv08]

Hi April,

I’ve been with my partner for almost 2.5 years. We are both studying and are living together as of about 7 months. However, from over a year ago, whenever we fight about little things I end up realising I’m nit-picking because I don’t feel like he’s been initiating sex enough. I spoke to him about this last night and he said he often needs a day or so after we have a disagreement to want to get back into it, in which time I get more frustrated and get angry again and the cycle continues. I can’t just wait for him to make a move (more than the next day). I don’t know what to do?

Williv08

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Rather than wait for him to initiate sex, give him a reason to want to initiate it. 😎 Stop nit picking and instead, go get some sexy lingerie and give yourself a bubble bath and do whatever it takes to put you in the mood — and then put him in the mood.

I’ve written a book, Romantic Date Ideas, with a lot of tips and some very helpful dates you can set up that will put you both in the mood. You can buy the book here: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/romantic-date-ideas.html[/url]. Get the book, and change your attitude with a little help from these dates!

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