If he hasn’t taken you out on a date once, there’s a really easy solution. Don’t agree to go over to his house and watch television, and don’t invite him to yours for the same. It’s pretty simple. If you behave as if you deserve more, he’ll treat you that way. But if you settle for sitting home every night in front of the television, he’s going to think it’s okay with you. Change YOUR behavior instead of complaining about his! 😉
As for the size of his, well…. I think you’re jumping the gun — no pun intended (I’m not sure there is one, but it seems like there should be! 😆 ). If he hasn’t taken you out on a date, why are you even handling his you know what?? You’ve only been “hanging out” for about a month. It doesn’t sound like you’re clear on your feelings for him and because he’s leaving in four days, you’re trying to wrap this relationship up in a neat little package. Sloooooow down! On one hand you say you’re “perfect” together and on the other, you don’t want to have sex with him and he won’t take you out on a date. 😕 You’re rushing things. Don’t commit to anything serious just yet. See how this plays out. I have a feeling there’s a lot more to be revealed.
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