[Miss_Unique]

It’s a bit long story. I’ll try to not annoy you, ahahaha.
Well, I’m 17 years old high school student from Armenia. My name is Maria and i’m a future lawyer.
2 years ago i was going on English classes with a guy, we were studying for university exams. He was funny, TOO humorous, talkative…being in the same group with him was something!!! But..after one year he entered to the university(he’s 19 now). I couldn’t meet him much anymore and i did not really care then.
Luckily he had friends in our yard and he was coming by last summer. There were rumors he liked me and so, but i guess i was too self-centered then, i didn’t pay attention.
And the summer of 2011…we ( me and 2 friends) were sitting and playing cards, actually doing some sort of card predictions (keeping 4 male names and then whoever left would be the future man, ahahaha)!…so i didn’t know who to put the fourth card..I put his name (Arthur). It was funny when we opened the last card and i said..”Ahaha, Arthur” when i heard his voice and saw him enter our yard. It took a minute to make me fall for him, weird.
Later he would introduce me to his friends who were going to major in law like me, so i wouldn’t have any problems in the university, he would always talk to me with smile and i really felt he wanted to(even though he would never write me on facebook or so) . I was stupid i guess, i think i felt numb to do anything.
Classes in my country start on September 1. I went to school and after 2 days my classmates (guys) were being a bit different. They had always been good to be, but not that much. Later one of the guys told me that someone came and asked about me(It’s normal in my country. Guys usually ask about the girl they like from others to know everything and then plan something), but he didn’t tell me a single name or, AT LEAST, the first letter of his name. I really hope it’s him. After that i saw on facebook that he was in Moscow. After 2 weeks i saw a picture of him and a girl…it was written “me and my girlfriend”..i was like “HUH?!”..Now i don’t even know if he’s back or if he’s still in Moscow.
I feel really weird…i really had to write all this..i’m sorry for writing this long…i know you might not even want to read all this, ahaha…BUt please tell me what i can do. How can i do anything? I’ve even deleted him because i couldn’t see his profile picture in facebook. Aren’t i acting childish? >.<

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like you’re trying to process your disappointment at what happened. 😳 If you write it down, maybe you can understand it better. You’ll see from your writing that he didn’t do anything wrong, so there’s no reason to be angry at him, but I can tell you are disappointed that he’s dating another girl instead of you. 🙁

Either he wasn’t interested in you enough to ask you out — or else, he didn’t feel there was any sign that you liked him enough for him to commit to asking you out! This is where flirting could have helped you a lot. 😉 Learning how and when to flirt is important for women! Men want to chase women and win them over — but in order to do this, you have to give him something to chase! This is a basic rule of dating. Learning how to flirt is very important because it lets a guy know you like him!

Buy and read a book I wrote for women called Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you have a much better idea — and lots of tips and advice — on how to get the guy!

I hope that helps. Please let me know how things go, and follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[Miss_Unique]

Thank you.
It’s weird. Life is just a game really. Yesterday i was walking home from classes with a friend. When he saw me and my friend. Greeted. He knows me and my friend. He was like “Are you studying together?” i answered “yes”. Then he was like “Maria is my “bro”(It’s like saying “sister” but in some other way. That’s how here guys usually talk about people close to them as FRIENDS, maybe he wanted to show that he thought of me as a close friend?). After that he was like “Yeah, me and Maria studied English together” in his humorous way. I felt he wanted my friend to know that. And my friend said “Yeah i know, I’ve been informed”..i was like “huh?. Because i did not tell him anything about him. I told Arthur ( the guy i like) that now english lessons seemed too serious and that i missed those days studying with him. He said ” i can come and study lil more” and i said “would be great”. The only thing that was a bit sad that he was talking about Moscow with pleasure. He said he wanted to go there again. I don’t know if that Russian(living in Moscow) girl(he’s dating or not) is a serious one, but he sure wants to go there.
Every time i forget him he appears on my way. It’s really weird. But i still think there is something. Because why would my friend say “I’m informed” then laugh.
Would you share your opinion please? Maybe I’m exaggerating? OR maybe i want to believe in it?
Thank you. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Re-read my advice, and get the book, Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you can understand how to get a man — and keep him! 😀

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[Miss_Unique]

I read your book. It’s awesome!! I like it a lot. I’ve read many books but when it comes to Love i don’t seem to want to use any tricks or play games.
I guess it would be better to play than do nothing ( like i do). I don’t even know what to do. i rarely see him. My pride wont let me write him first. I guess it’s not the right time yet. 🙂

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Correct — it isn’t the right time. Re-read the book (I’m really glad you like it), and give yourself a refresher course on dating! 😉

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