So my ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for 2 weeks and so far it’s been fine he’s talking to me which is really great. But here’s the thing I think he still likes me and cares for me still… He still has the card I made him for his birthday on his binder, he jokes around with me, he’s starting to sit next to me a lot, he shared food with me and on Halloween he even shared a lot of his candy with me because he wanted to. He sometimes even flirts with me. It’s maybe because he wants to be friends but I don’t know maybe he still has feelings for me because he tries to txt me and I’m starting to move on but I still think of him and the memories we’ve shared… Should I feel guilty for thinking about him still or not? What does this mean all of this? ~High School Break Ups Wish I Knew Why He Broke Up With Me Still…
I’m sure he still likes you, but if you’re broken up, and there was a good reason for the break up, staying friendly can be confusing and can make it hard to move on. My advice is to be clear on what you want, and if it is to move on, then spend less time with him so you’re not distracted. 😉
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So far my breakup has been alright, me and my ex talk and stuff at school. The weird thing out of it is that he’s trying to flirt with me again, in on of our classes he was passing notes with me and my friend and was playfully bothering me, later during class he was trying to talk to me but he looked nervous and so did I because my friend was making it awkward -_- Then me an my friend went to the door before the bell rings and he was really staring at me. Me and my friend were like confused. Also on the same day he hugged me, he hugged my other friend normally but when he hugged me it was like the hug he use to give me when we were dating he would pick me up when he hugs me and I was like Huh? after lunch he walked me to class to and then on another day his friends were trying to make me jealous saying this joke that he was going to his ex’s house for a movie night and was joking how they were going to have popcorn and just watch a bunch of movies. Of course I acted like it was nothing but in the inside I was so mad>:( I really don’t know why guys are like this, why can’t guys just say what they want to say, say what they’re thinking and not be afraid to show it… What does that mean?
He’s ambivalent. He clearly was sure about the break up when he did it, but people change their minds, or they make decisions that aren’t 100 percent clear — although they may be 70 percent clear. Many people break up with someone, and then have feelings for them — but it doesn’t necessarily mean a reunion…. although it could. 😉
