[kaylh]

I have been very upset because my boyfriend doesn’t listen to me. I finally moved out of his apartment. Finally he took me seriously, and we started counseling. The counselor asked if we wanted to get back together. He said yes, I said I didn’t know. My boyfriend (fiance) decided to move to an area he knows I’ve always wanted to live in. He asked me to sign the lease with him. I asked why should I sign for have of the lease payment when I don’t even know if I want to be with him, or live with him. He said he would write a second paper saying that if I don’t move in with him, I won’t be responsible for any of the lease payment. Should I sign? Should I keep going to counseling and working to save this relationship?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Absolutely do not sign the lease! 😮 This is not a business arrangement — it’s a relationship! 😯 And it’s a relationship that’s on the rocks right now. Signing a lease agreement with him — is simply going to complicate matters, so don’t do it. Simplify, first. 😉

I’m not sure how old you both are, or how long you’ve been dating — or even how long you’ve been engaged — but without knowing those facts, it seems like you have to decide if you want a future with him or not. His not listening to you doesn’t sound like the real reason that you moved out.

Tell me more — fill me in — and I’ll give you more advice, but for now, in answer to the question, DO NOT sign his lease agreement.

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