I’ve been dating this guy for 5 months now and at first we use to talk a lot , he use to text me first thing in the morning and would always say goodnight to me, lately however i feel that if i don’t initiate the contact he won’t even bother, if i say something like: i miss you or express how i feel in any way he dosen’t say anything back to me anymore…he will just tell me that he likes my cheesiness. I have sat down with him and i told him that i had notice him being distant lately, and that i feel he does not want to be near me or avoiding me; however his response was” i know what you mean but i don’t do it intetionally” he said that he’s just misunderstood. This guessing thing is driving me crazy. I have the key to his apartment and he told me the night i asked him about being weird with me that if he didn’t want me around anymore he would have told me already and taken the key away or would have told me straight up. Is bothering me that he’s acting this way because i been in relationships before where when they act like that is because there’s someone else. Another thing my birthday was on feb. 26 and he took me out of town paid for everything gave me a gift that represents how we met….so i am not sure how to take how he’s acting towards me anymore. my friends keep telling me that is just me being paranoid that everything is ok but how come i don’t see it that way. Pleas help me!!!!
P.S. If i thought he was acting a bit weird prior to my birthday, well after we came back from out of town i feel that it has gotten a bit worse. I asked him lat week about him being distant with me and cold so i don’t know anymore.
