I met a guy last weekend and we ended up going out for ice cream. He seemed really relaxed and we had good conversation, he wasn’t just feeding me a bunch of lines. When he walked me to my car, he said “I’m gonna steal a kiss” and kissed me softly a few times (not aggressive at all). Later that night he texted me to thank me for coming out and said he had a great time. He’s texted me every day since then just making small talk and trying to make plans for this weekend. We spoke briefly on the phone the other night too.
We live in different cities and he keeps texting me that he can’t wait to see me again. The other night he called and we were talking a bit and he said “Wow, we have so much in common!” and “I’m so happy to have met you. I think it was meant to be.” He refers to me as sweetie, sweetheart, pumpkin, etc. which are really sweet but I’m honestly not used to being called those things by a guy who isn’t my boyfriend. Last night he asked me to send him a pic while we were texting so I sent him one and he responded “You’re hot btw 🙂“
Later on, he suggested a movie and sleepover next time I visited so I said “Movie’s good, maybe a sleepover down the line” and he said “Yeah, good call lol”
I know guys are naturally gonna try to get a woman in bed as soon as possible, but I’m new to the dating game and I’m trying to be careful and not get too head over heels too quickly. I really like him a lot but at the same time I’m trying to play it cool. He usually initiates any contact. I don’t know if it makes any difference, but he’s a few years younger than me (I’m 24 and he’s 21).
Although I’m a pretty attractive woman, I’m not used to guys showing me so much attention. I’ve been told this is because I’m typically quiet and guys tend to be intimidated by me. My friends and family tell me that I need to work on my confidence because I’m beautiful and guys are constantly looking at me, but honestly I never notice.
