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I’ve met this guy a month ago when i hang about with my friends. At first our friend introduced us to each other but he was too shy to talk to me so i kinda just left him alone. But the second i saw him was during a party. That night he kept on making the first move to talk to me and play fight with me. Even our friend around us said that its so obvious he likes me. After that night, the next day he took me out on a date. It was a lovely date and i ended up in his house and had sex. I knew i shouldnt have sex with a guy that i barely know but that night when we both sitting in his house~ i can feel his feelings towards me is really strong and he made me feel complete loved. I even asked him the next day does he really have feelings for me and he admitted yes. Soon he admitted to his friends he likes me but hes not ready for a relationship because of his ex have hurted him so deep. At first i understand where he coming from so i just continue to be normal friends with him so he can slowly move on from his ex until recently he starts to stop texting me and basically pulling himself away completely. Its been almost 2 weeks now and i havent heard from him at all also he suddenly become so close with my best friend. I know he never post on people facebook walls but this week he posting on my friend wall and comment on my other friend pictures. He know those 2 girls are my best friend and he seems to try to talk to them so much. He even invited one of my best friend to his house to watch movie and chat. I got so paranoid and i dont know is he just finish fooling me around or he is pulling away to think. The girl that he invited over had said to me when he first ignores me, he still asked how im from her and telling her he dont know what he wants yet and he wont force me to wait for him. But i just got so annoyed that why cant he ask me how im instead but from my friend? And i dont know what to do to get him back into my life~ i know for a fact that i fell in love with him after the first date but now hes completely pulling away for 2 weeks now and i dont know what to do.. I felt lost and hurt.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You met a guy, went on one date and slept with him, and now he’s not interested in you any more. 😳 What’s worse is that he’s hitting on your friends. What is it, exactly, that you like about a guy who isn’t interested in you? It would be a lot healthier, and you’d be a lot happier if you find a man who cares about you. This guy doesn’t.

If you want to learn details on how to find, get and keep Mr. Right, you should read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url], so you have the basics at hand.

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