[Sezzie0000]

Hi,

I met this guy at a friends place. He was friends with my brother. We were having a party at my friends house and he was there so we got taking. We spoke like this as friends for months anyway, we went for a drive to get pizza for the party and we had a long conversation about life and it was weird I got out of the car and realised I liked him.

Anyway 2 months later of seeing him occasionally when he was hanging with my brother. I texted him to say I liked him turns out he likes me too. We had a long conversation about how we had both felt the same way since tonight we picked up pizza and didn’t say anything. We chatted for ages then made out and let me tell you the kiss felt so perfect. We caught up a few times over the next few weeks then my brother found out and he went crazy. And said we couldn’t talk to each other anymore, he totally freaked and also told my mum. Then Christmas Eve at our family lunch things we really awkward and my brother was watching his every move and mum watching mine. He left early and really abruptly. The last time we spoke was 3 days later when he told me he couldn’t handle the stress of mum and brother.

Anyway I was hurt because the feeling I had for him we indescribable. I felt so connect to him. It was completely different to how I felt in the past with guys.

Anyway he ended up going back to his ex about a month later. Anyway he messages me yesterday randomly and just had a normal convo and he had broken up with his ex. Then a little later in the convo he told me he still likes me and asked to meet up. I said I wasn’t after any casual and he said no I defiantly don’t want that either. He didn’t want to stuff it up again. So he told me in car that he hasn’t been able to stop thinking about me and that he massively regrets letting everything getting to him and not giving us a go. He told he was getting threats from my brother and it freaked him out. He also told that the family day he had a text he wanted to send me telling me he loved me but though I would freak out with it being so soon. Then after the inappropriate comments he decided to leave the house. He also told me that he didn’t want something short term thing.

He told me basically he gets this feeling with me he has never had before butterflies and heart racing and feeling like it’s real love. I truth is I felt the same but I have my guard up at the moment. I don’t know what to do I don’t want to be hurt again. Is all the things he saying truth or a lie?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

How old are you both?

[Sezzie0000]

I’m 24 he’s 22.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Thanks for telling me your ages. 🙂 It sounds like he is telling you the truth — but you may still get hurt. He’s rebounding from a failed relationship, and you’re his rebound person. 😕 On top of that, you’ve both got family pressure that won’t make things easy. I think you should take him at his word, but also keep a grip on the whole situation. He’s definitely rebounding, and this may be something that’s short lived. That said, if you don’t try, you’ll never know. Do remember that if you want a relationship where you don’t have to guess if he likes you or not, don’t make things too easy for him. Don’t have sex too soon. Don’t ask him out or tell him you like him before you’ve even dated. If you want to buy (electronically) and read [b]Think & Date Like A Man[/b], a book I wrote for women who want to date well, it might really serve you. Here’s the link for the book: [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url].

Hope that helps!

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[Sezzie0000]

Thank you

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You’re very welcome! 🙂

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