Im 22 and I have already graduated from med school and starting internship, ive been dating a guy 2 years now .. the problem is he is younger than i am by 1 and a half yrs.. he is also doing medicine and he needs another 3 years to graduate. Although I am a little more conservative, we both come from the same cultural and religious backgrounds (where sex is forbidden until after marriage and alcohol is not accepted)
he is quite smart and is doing well in school, but also hes also the party animal .. drugs, bitches, alcohol you name it. he also has a problem of being VERY flirty and misleading.. and as much as i tried to fuss and fight abt it so he’d change, he does for a while then goes back to his old habits.. altho some maybe completely platonic, i cant stand it . Ive been trying to change his ways, and he really did change alot for me but i dont know if its enough. I am sure that he loves me very much and holds me dear for he has introduced me to all his family as his future wife (which in our culture doesnt happen unless you are very serious about the girl ) he has also treated me like a queen all those years, nice dinners, expensive gifts, he lsn, talks , shares things with me.. hes been wonderful
however, things began to fall apart while i was away this summer, he was acting all lovely duvy, he said he missed me and we used to txt and call all the time. when i came back home, he was acting fishy. kicking me out of his house early , making excuses to not go out, stuff like that. i found out that he was cheating on me with this girl with him in school and his only excuse was 1) i felt lonely 2) i am stupid.. he cried begged pleaded and did the impossible to try to prove his love! for 3 months now we’ve been fighting everyday and i said and did sum unforgivable things, but he still managed to stick around to prove his love for me and that he is loyal and is only mine!! Ive lately noticed that he started flirting a little bit, altho he says its completely platonic.
Now that his school’s starting soon Im finding it really hard to have faith in him again and trust him.. Im always on guard, i always feel like he is or is going to cheat on me.. wot shud i do? shud i just break up with him? was it stupid to get back together in the 1st place after he cheated ? pls help!!
thank you for your time!
