[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and i have been on and off for about 5 months now, dating others in between “breaks”. When we first started dating he’d send me texts a page long just to tell me how much he loved me, but now that I’m getting one word texts from him it’s unnerving. We also started sexting early on, but when it started i was uncomfortable with it and constantly pushed him away. Eventually i began to think that it was normal (and essential to keeping him) and now we do it on a regular basis although we’ve never actually had sex. I know I “have” him, but I’m afraid that even though we’re in a relationship he thinks of me more sexually than he does emotionally. Is there a way I can fix this or is it too late? Would it be obvious that something was up if i just flat out objected the next time he initiated it?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It’s pretty clear he’s only interested in this sexting relationship with you — and other women at the same time. Since that’s been the basis of the relationship which is now five months old, I’m not sure that you can “fix” it. What you can do is change YOUR behavior and if he’s onboard for going in the direction you want, then you’ll know that the two of you have some compatibility. If he isn’t interested in stopping the sexting, then I think you should move on and find someone who is more compatible with you.

I strongly suggest you read Think & Date Like A Man, [url]https://www.askapril.com/relationship-dating-advice/think-and-date-like-a-man.html[/url] (you can also buy it on Amazon and Barnes & Noble websites).

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