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I met this guy a bar (yeah I know…) and he got my number, we texted eachother only slightly until a week later when I saw him again and ended up going home with him. I’ve never had a one night stand, but I was really don’t know what I was thinking that night. Anyway, the thing is I added him on facebook a few days earlier and he has a long distance girlfriend ( we are in college) and I knew that prior to this hook up, gosh I was an idiot. He was way to comfortable hooking up with me so I figured this must be a normal ” Cheat with some girl I met at the bar, never see or talk to again, go tweet that my GF is the love of my life etc.etc”
So I was totally walking away the next day and knowing I’d never communicate with him again.

BUT for some reason I could not stop thinking about this asshole, and I didn’t even know him. The fact that he could do that and then just go on saying he loved this girl, really really made me feel 1)guilty 2) fascinated.

fastforward to 4 weeks later, Its 2 am and I can’t sleep and actually have this guys profile pulled up on facebook. And boom I get a text. From this dude, who is aware I’m not even in town for the summer… He asks me how I’ve been, and then starts asking those “getting to know you” type questions. Not even remotely sexually related or insinuating another hook up.

WHY IS THIS FUCKING NOBODY INTEREST ME SO MUCH, I’m just guessing since he was my only one night stand and I’m too young and stereo typically naive to tell him to screw off.

is this normal one night stand behavior?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

When a one night stand wants to get to know you better, it’s because he wants more. It’s sometimes easier when things are black and white, but he’s giving you shades of grey. You’ve got a lot of information about him — enough to make decisions about whether or not you want to continue to stay in contact or see each other again. Don’t expect him to suddenly drop his long distance girlfriend for you, but on the other hand, just as you’re intrigued by him, it sounds like he is by you, too.

Hope that helps.

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