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Is she interested or just being friendly/ should I bother?

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    flyboysp
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    There is this girl at work who I like and have a thing for and who i think may have a thing for me, and we both get along well with each other ( said by someone else) , for about a year now. I’d just like other poeple’s opinion about the whole thing, given the following

    * She occasionally calls me Boo boo, She also calls me different variations of my name in Italian aswell, which she learnt in school
    * She had a boyfriend until 2 months ago. The way i found out about that makes me feel like it was a setup. My friend who let it slip,Dayna and myself were chatting about random tuff, i started walking away to my area, when Dayna said come back, so we could chat a bit more, which i did. Then my friend says how long has it been since you broke up and she says about a month.
    * A work friend let slip to her (Dayna) that i like her. However she does not know that i know she knows
    * I have kissed her twice on the cheek, which she initiated.
    * We sometimes share drinks and food
    * She recently (within the last week) asked for my number so she could “show me something”, which turned out to be a photo she took of me a few days earlier. I’ve finally gotten her number aswell, which i’ve been after for a while
    *She initiates most of the physical contact between us. Stuff like hugs, particularly from behind and/or when i’m not expecting it. Sometimes she pokes me and brushes my arm or butt when walking past sometimes. Also she sometimes leans her head on my shoulders. On occassion she will come up behind me and lock arms so we are arm in arm
    * We sometimes stare at each other in a good way
    * On several occasions she has asked would i still be her friend if she changed her hair colour, or coloured her nails or altered her hair style or something trivial
    * On a few occassions over the last few weeks, when we have been alone for a bit at work, she has drawn love hearts on my hand and wrists.
    * We almost always ask each other when we will each be next working to see when we are both on.

    Having said all this, she is the flirty type, but compared to what i know, i get the “special treatment”. Also a few months ago (8-9 months when she was still with her boyfriend), a friend from work took it upon themselves to ask Dayna if there was anything happening between me and her, and apparently she replied is that I am like an older brother to her.

    Feel free to ask for more info and thanks for the replies

    #18978
    Anonymous
    Member #382,293

    Drawing love hearts on your hand and wrists? Hugging you from behind, leaning her head on your shoulder, brushing your arm or butt 😈 when walking past? What kind of workplace is that? 😕

    Yes, she likes you. Could it be any clearer? And anyway, what do you have to lose? If you like her, ask her out on a date. A real one. You know, call her at night mid-week and ask if she wants to have dinner with you that Saturday. Treat it like a date. See what happens!

    #18612
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    She’s interested. 😀

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