Anxiety isn’t always about what’s in your head. You’re picking up a change in his behavior after three months of dating, and you’re trying to figure what this change in his behavior means for you.
However, my advice is to get out of your head, and understand that when dating, at the three month mark, people decide whether or not they want to continue seeing the person they’re dating, so it makes sense that he’s figuring that out right now. Your anxiety isn’t going to help. At worst, it will push him away, but at best, it can be a catalyst for a change in your behavior. If you want someone, and you understand that dating is competitive, that anxiety can push you to bring your A game to dating. Ask yourself if you’re doing everything you can be doing to be the girlfriend who gets the guy? At the same time, you have to balance the understanding that not everyone is your cup of tea and you’re not everyone’s cup of tea. So don’t do nothing. Instead, bring your best girlfriend-self to the relationship and make him want to be with you more than he is already, but also balance the reality of who he is and what his life allows at this time, given his job.
[b]Everyone likes to be liked! If the advice you found on AskApril.com was helpful “like” us on FB — and tell a friend!
[url][/url][/b]
