[ikeeponfalling]

Im very inexpirienced in the romance department despite being 33 years old. I dont get asked out much and in fact Ive only had one relationship in my past that lasted almost 2 years. Its been 2 years since that relationship and Ive finally met someone whom Im very interested in and the feeling seems to be mutual. We met through friends, clicked right away and even kissed that same night, Its been a month and weve been out on 6 dates (have not had sex yet) and hes texted/called me every day since. I feel that wed be great together, we have fun, good conversation and he seems to be quite put together, hes even been married before although hes barely 32.
My concern is that I get a feeling that things are going incredibly slow, his way of asking me out is the “if youre not doing anything….” type and he doesnt seem to keen in seeing me and being around me. For example Valentine´s Day. I had already made plans with my friends to celebrate when he asked me out and I told him to join us, his answer was “enjoy your friends, Ill stay home instead”
Like I said, I have no experience and I get carried away with Cosmo tips about not been too available, blah blah blah… So are things ok, should I just let him “be”, is he not really interested or just leading me on??
I do have a life, friends, work, etc.. Im not focused on him.. Im just curious of whether or not theres something there… Hes an aries and theyre supposed to be compulsive and to the point, right?? Lol
HELP.

[AskApril Masini]

I’m not sure from your post how long it took for the six dates — was it six dates in six months? Or six dates in six days?

Six dates does show his interest in you, however, what happens on those dates is what propels things forward — or slows them to a standstill. You mentioned the number of dates, but not how the dates went. Make sure that if you’re interested, he knows because you’re flirting with him. 😎

My advice for future is not to invite him to “come along” if he calls you up and asks you out and you have plans. He didn’t come along because he didn’t want to be one of your friends — he wanted you to be his Valentine date. 😳 And… if he asked you out with any kind of notice, my advice would have been to accept the date and cancel on your friends. If he’s going to be your boyfriend, then you have to show him that he’s special — not one of the gang. 😉

I hope this helps. Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

[ikeeponfalling]

Its been 6 dates in 1 month approximately. Ive shown a lot of interest so I was wondering if there was any way of getting him to me ask me out more or should I let things stay this way and see how they progress… Thanks

[AskApril Masini]

Gosh — six dates in four weeks sounds like a really good start! 😀

Use the advice I gave you in my last post: [quote]Six dates does show his interest in you, however, what happens on those dates is what propels things forward — or slows them to a standstill. You mentioned the number of dates, but not how the dates went. Make sure that if you’re interested, he knows because you’re flirting with him. [/quote]

Let me know how things go, and please follow me @AskAprilcom on Twitter and on Facebook at this link: [url][/url].

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