[aidounette]

Hi everyone.
So here it is. There’s this guy I like and I think he might like me back too but he is acting very weird and everytime I’m sure that he is definitely into me, something happens and makes me think the opposite.
We’re both 16, and know eachother since we started high school this year (so almost 6 months).
At first he was just a normal lad, we were joking around with our mutual friends. But since january or so it’s getting very flirty and weird between us. Well I think he kinda started this. We fake fights and is very touchy with me (Like he touched my ear once and several times my stomach, like I mean who does that?). His arms are sometimes wrapped on me. He also once by surprise, while I was talking to some friends and he was behind me with other people in my class, took me by surprised and faked the fact that he was going to kiss me and said “I don’t care I’ve got a new girl”. Lol all of a sudden. Really unexpected! Even on Valentine’s day he was making dirty jokes, calling me darling and stuff. It even lead to the fact that our friends call us “cute” or people tell him “come w/ your wife upstairs”… BUT I realized that he was touchy with everyone and I’m affraid he’s playing with my feelings. Besides today he was joking I think but I took it personnaly when he said “i’m leaving you” ( + we didn’t spend that much time 🙁 ) OR maybe it’s me the problem because I flirted with some guys anf it never lead to anything, even though I was trying to let them know I liked them (I actually hugged him, which I don’t!). Anyway what are your thoughts ? Am I overreacting ? Thanks and I’m sorry if there are some mistakes because I’m not a native.

[kai]

I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions.

If you want to get a response from April please repost your question in the proper forum which is the Q & A Advice Forum.

[April Mașini, your AskApril]

Happy New Year! Let me know how things are going for you. 😉

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