It really sounds like the cards are stacked against you in this relationship for a couple of reasons. Not only are you now in a full on long distance relationship, you’re doing so at a time when both you and your girlfriend are full time college students. College is not just an educational experience but a richly social one, so without each other, you both have enormous resources for other people to date, befriend and socialize with. Your girlfriend is also telling you point blank that since she’s transferred to another college, and doesn’t see you regularly, she’s losing feelings for you.
I’d advise you to not take the rejection personally, and understand that geographical compatibility is a large part of any successful relationship and it seems like that’s one of the main reasons your relationship is fading to off. That, and the college lives you both have in different states.
Your concern for her potentially getting hurt if she dates other guys isn’t a good excuse for her not dating you because she’s a big girl and she needs to learn to take care of herself. Her past hurtful relationships brought her to you (a good guy! 🙂 ), so it’s entirely possible that she may find another good guy if she isn’t with you. Regardless, that isn’t really your business. It’s hers.
If you do want to win her over, understand it’s an uphill battle, and all you can do is to continue to be positive, have fun when you are together, and know that you’re both in a tough situation, geographically, that she would like to use to explore other dating situations, and you don’t.
I hope that helps even though it’s not what you wanted to hear.
