You have two issues:
1. You like a man who hasn’t really shown any interest in you. 😳 You sent him an e-mail — now he has your contact information, so if he wants to contact you, he will. But I’d like you to manage your expectations. 😉 Most 30 year old men won’t really consider a relationship with a 19 year old who is still in college. The reason is that there is so little in common between the two. But in your situation, the distance is another obstacle that will probably win out. 😳 He’s probably someone who wants to date and have an in-town relationship. Long distance relationships aren’t appealing to most people, so you shouldn’t count on this working out. It’s not you — it’s the compatibility between a big life experience gap and a big distance gap.
2. You’re distracted. 😮 The best way to get your mind focused on whatever it is you want to do (in your case final exams and college), is to change your chemistry and your surroundings. If you’re sitting in your dorm room, bored, your mind will wander. Instead, exercise, take up a sport, and go to the library or a coffee shop to study. Don’t allow your mind idle wandering. Instead, start engaging yourself by shopping and cooking healthfully, giving yourself a makeover, meeting up with study buddies, etc.
I know your heart is stung, but you need to do the work to move past this moment. 😀
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