I Bee-Lieve

mom hates the guy I love.

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    caridrake12
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    Here’s the thing, I’m 17 years old and I’ve been in love with the same guy since I was 14 years old. We dated when I was an incoming freshman, and he was a junior. We dated for two and a half years. We fought on a daily basis, and he grabbed my arm too hard and left me bruises. My mom is my best friend, and she knows that I love her more than anything or anyone else. But I want her to support me and she refuses to. She hates him and won’t allow me to talk to him at all anymore. It’s completely hard for me not to talk to him though, and I’m miserable. I don’t know how to make her see it my way and allow me to be with him again. Helpppp.

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    Ask April Masini
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    Sorry. Your mom is right. If a boy hurts you, you need to stay him away from him — even if you think you love him or like him a lot. It’s very hard to see clearly when you’re a teenager because your body is full of hormones that are helping you grow into a woman. The lucky thing is you have a mom to guide you. It’s okay to be mad at your mom and disagree with her, but do obey her. She really has your best interests at heart.

    Think about how you would feel if your mom or your best friend were dating someone who hurt them, physically. You’d want the best for your mom or your friend, and you wouldn’t want them to even risk being hurt. That’s what your mom is there to do for you.

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