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My boyfriend said he wanted to kill me and him.

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    I’m dating this guy named Kale right now. He’s 21, I’m 16. He’s a “super senior” at school, and he’s incredibly gorgeous. He’s not really friends with anyone at school besides me. We’ve been dating for a year and we’re practically the same person. I’ve even started to develop his english accent. He’s got an abusive father, and he’s addicted to a lot of drugs. He’s been showing me more and more how dumb the people I used to hang out with are. I used to be shallow, but he turned me into a deep person. He’s so depressed though. He’s been saying lately that we should kill ourselves together. He says that we’ll meet in Hell and spend our death together lol I dunno though, I love him so much… but I’m not sure I’m ready to give up my life for him like that. Any advice?
    And he’s never abused me in any way. I know how crazy I sound, but I love him so much.

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    First of all, a super senior is not super. 😳 Super senior is a name for a person who is not able to graduate high school in the normal 18 years, and is still there at age 21 — or more — when most people are finished with high school and have moved on to either college or working with an apartment and an adult life. This guy wasn’t able to finish high school in the normal time AND he’s addicted to drugs — that’s two reasons this guy is not your Mr. Right. 😕 And his idea that suicide — or joint suicide — is romantic, is just plain sick. 😳 If he really cared about you, he would want the best for you, including a bright future. This guy is seriously troubled and my advice is that you call the police and tell them that he’s suicidal, and then stay far away from him. Any guy who tells a 16 year old girl that she should kill herself because it’s romantic, is dangerous.

    You can do a lot better than him. You can find someone who is living a healthy, happy, productive life, and who wants the same for you. You can date someone who wants to share good times — not darkness like drugs, death and dating people who are much younger than he is because he’s still in high school years after most people his age have graduated.

    I hope you’ll stay far away from him.

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