Hi April. This has been really been been a problem for me now for a while. My boyfriend met his ex in high school and they have had an on off relationship for 40 years ending about 10 or 12 years ago. At one point they were engaged but broke up so many times they decided to and they decided to end it but remained friends. I met him about four years ago and we have dated and been together ever since. In the beginning of our relationship she would come over to his house for dinner about once a week or once every two weeks and he would go over there for dinner. I could never come over if she was there and I have never met her but she knows about me and saw me drive by one time when I thought she would be gone and he usually had me over after she left and she saw my truck and thought I was a stalker. He and I have grown closer because of some things another ex-girlfriend and her did to me such as a letter I read that was sexual that was sexual and a text I saw when I was standing in the kitchen with him when I was standing in the kitchen with him and she was responding and she was responding to him about a sex dream she claims he contacted him about. He denies it and denies it that he ever told her that and I don’t know who to believe. He said she is just trying to hurt me and I asked him why would he continue to be friends with somebody that would do that to me and told me he would stop contact with her but I know he hasn’t because I check his phone on his landline and I see that she has called. He says that he wants to forgive her because they have been friends for so long and I should forgive her too as he is pretty religious. The more I think about it the madder I get and it is hard for me to be nice to him because I feel as though he doesn’t have my back because of how she hurt me with that text I am so confused and I know he loves me but I don’t know who to believe her or him. The relationship is getting very hard for me because I don’t know whether to let this go but what because it is eating at me and I can’t talk to him because he gets mad. And I still have never met her so I pulled her up on Facebook and saw her picture and she noticed that when he was looking at something on my phone and I found out he called her and told her I was looking her up on Facebook and she blocked me and I was so mad he did that because once again he did not have my back but he always has an excuse what should I do?
