[Anonymous]

Hey April! My ex boyfriend and I broke up two months ago and he moved on pretty fast after we broke up and now he has came back telling me that that girl was his rebound that even though he seemed happy with her that he wasn’t and wants to give us another try. We didn’t end on bad terms , but I can’t get over the fact he moved on so quickly. Should I give him another chance . I still have very strong feelings for him , and the problems we had in our relationship are not major and could definitely be worked out so what do you think why did he suddenly decide to come back and try it again?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You have to tell me more. How long were you dating before the break up? How old are you both? Was this woman he rebounded with someone you suspect he was interested in all along, and just wanted to give it a try without cheating on you?

Let me know — and I’ll give you advice! 😀

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[Anonymous]

We dated for 4 1/2 months we are both 17 about to be 18 and no I don’t think he left me for her. I mean he knew her before he met me so he would of had time to go out with her then , but never did and he has never talked about her.He has however told me about one of his ex girlfriends who broke his heart in the past , and was hoping I wouldn’t do the same thing.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Because of your ages, I think he wasn’t as serious about dating as you are. Men and women at 17 and 18 are not emotional equals in many cases, and I think you are a lot more willing and able to have a long term relationship with him than he is. It sounds like he’s a little more distract-able, like many men his age, and that although his feelings for you are genuine, he’s not ready to “settle” into a relationship the way you are.

If you’re able to date him knowing that he may not be as mature as you are right now, then enjoy yourself, remembering your differences. If not, then you may want to find a young man who’s a little more on the same page that you are in terms of what he wants from a relationship and from dating in general.

I hope that helps. Let me know how things go.

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