You’re not wrong. Your work frenemy has a crush on your boyfriend, and it sounds like you all work together. However…. your approach isn’t working and I suggest you change it. 😉 By picking at a scab, you’re going to create a real wound, so stop nagging your boyfriend to confess or admit a situation that is a losing one for you. If your boyfriend is denying the situation or doesn’t see it — you’re just making a mountain out of a molehill. Instead… accept that you’ve got competition, and decide to win. Bring your A game to the relationship and focus on the relationship you have with your boyfriend. He’s not going to cheat or leave you because she’s amazing — he’s going to cheat or leave you because the relationship the two of you has problems (so don’t make any by complaining about her to him). Be the girlfriend who gets the guy. Have fun, flirt with him, make memories together and become stronger than ever because this other woman has given you that opportunity. In other words, turn it all around and make this about you and the boyfriend — not your boyfriend and her. 🙂
I hope that helps!
