hi, need some advice here.
I have been dating with my girl friend for close to 6 months now. she claims to really love me, she has even pushed for the two of us to get married and i told her i too would like to marry her. She went ahead and updated her facebook status from being single to engaged. She has even told her close friends about me, she even introduced me to her younger brother. She even wants me to introduce her to my parents. with all that said, i have a few concerns with which i need advice from you.
She still communicates with her ex almost on a daily basis. she even goes as far as visiting the home of this ex-boyfriend in the evenings. When i ask her about, she tells me yes they used to have an affair with guy but they seperated and are now just close friends.
When my girl friend lost her phone, the ex even provided her with another phone, when i said i don’t like it, the girl told me not to worry because the ex is just helping as a friend, i don’t believe she is being honest here.
This lady is also a business woman, she recently arrived late from a business trip and when i asked her where she slept because it was late to reach her residence, she told me she slept at the ex’s but that they did nothing since they are just friends these days. (this sounds strange to me).
I have now told the girl that am not ready to go ahead with planned marriage and she is now so angry with me. She claims i put shamed her coz she had informed most of her friends the we were about to marry each other. I honestly feel the lady is not being fair to me, i feel she isn’t telling the truth and i want to change my door locks so doesn’t get access to my house any more. I want to look else where.
So am i being rude to her or that is the right thing to do.
