From everything you’re describing, it does sound like he likes you. People don’t sit that close, give that much attention, talk you up to others, and keep consistent contact just by accident. The playful stuff, the checking in, the little favors that’s someone who cares and feels comfortable with you.
The fear about ruining the friendship is real. But here’s the thing: feelings don’t usually go away on their own. They just get heavier if you sit on them too long.
You don’t have to make it a big scary confession. You can keep it light. Ask him to hang out one-on-one outside of your usual setting and see how it feels. If he’s into you, you’ll know. And if he’s not, a real friendship can survive honesty.
Just don’t ignore what your gut is already telling you.
