[Simmo91]

Hi, ok I have been with my girlfriend for 10 months now, but recently she seems really distant and not too bothered with me. Shes knot a very open person about things at all and she always seems to be under stress because of work. I try everything to keep her mood up and happy buts it’s so difficult cause she says shes always tired. Our relationship used to be amazing it was really intimate and always had a good time, but now we hardly have any sort of intimate contact between one another. I love her to bits but I’m not to sure as what to do or what’s even happening between us???? :/

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Figure out if the stress from her work is the real reason that she’s drifting from you. If it is, then you can decide if it’s always going to be there for her or if it’s a phase that’s an understandable part of her career or job field. If it is, decide if you want to stay with someone who’s got this kind of chronic stress. If you don’t, then it’s over, but if you do, then you can help by 1) understanding more about who you’re with and what their job stress is like, and 2) trying some new things to make the relationship better in the bedroom, which always helps, and better outside of the bedroom with date nights, little gifts and flowers that you use to woo her and let her know she’s your one and only, and understanding with hot bubble baths when she gets home, a back rub, a certificate to the spa for the day, and other treats to let her know you care and love her — and miss her.

Let me know how things go here!

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