Is it considered this day and age to be somewhat “friends” with your ex of over 10 year if strictly platonic and not inappropriate. Just occasional texts or calls, shopping, cup of coffee. Not lying or cheating or and would be honest about what I was doing or going or saying. Also would never put ex before my current partner. Do not honestly have any feelings with my ex and only feelings for my current partner whom I want to spend the rest of my life with. But I also want to be honest with who I am and what I feel. What’s the general consensus?