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    younginlove
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    To start off, I’m 18 years old. I’ve been in relationships and was engaged from Feb. 2009 to May 2009. Well, it ended and I was devastated. I got over it and the end of Sept. 2009, I met a guy, Kevin. He’s 28 years old. I know it’s a big age difference, but i’ve always liked older men. Well, I live in small community with females out numbering males and im a white girl, who dates interracially, which the black females can’t stand. He just got his freedom back and hangs with these girls, some which he’s had relations with. I don’t wan’t to seem insecure and be jealous, because it’s just friends, but sometimes he don’t always call and it makes my mind start wondering things. I don’t wan’t to ruin something that could be good. He’s a party guy and i’ve learned my lesson from it so now im more of a home-body. Could this turn into a serious problem or something easy to over-come?

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    Ask April Masini
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    I’m not sure if you’re actually dating Kevin, or if he’s just a man you’ve met who you’re possibly interested in. I wouldn’t worry about the age difference too much, but I would be very aware that sometimes he doesn’t call you, as you say.

    That alone wouldn’t be of such concern, but the fact that he hangs out with women, some of whom he has slept with, and that you say he’s a party guy, and you’re not, makes me think that this may be more of a rebound relationship for you rather than a match that could go the distance. 😐

    He’s also at a big advantage because you live in a community where women outnumber men. 😕

    My advice to you would be to keep things light with him, and don’t commit your heart to a man you’ve only known and/or dated for a week or two. Try to get out and meet other men because you’ll not only increase your chances of meeting someone more compatible, but you won’t be putting all your eggs in one basket with Kevin!

    It’s too soon to say if this could turn into a serious problem, but there do seem to be some incompatibilities between the two of you from the start that may not lead to commitment or marriage.

    Hope this helps! 🙂

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