Hi everyone I have a huge issue I have been in a relationship for 12 years we have 3 kids together we split up about 3 months ago mostly because I was not paying attention to her and not treating her like I should have, before we actually split ahe met another guy and was with him for 2 months, they are no longer together due to he went to jail, she called me and we reconnected about a month ago and I have never been happier I finally achieved happiness I learned to appreciate her, but she tells me she is not ready to commit to me and wants to be free and needs more time to forgive me, now im confused because at night and in the morning she always wants to cuddle and lay and im her security but during the day she acts like she hates me please help with any advice I live this girl more than anything in this world and want her to realise that and let us be a family