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There is this girl that flirts with me and says awwww if I leave early. She told me that I look like Edward Cullen. I am very attractive(people assume I am a model) and smart by the way. Her and her bestfriend would constantly make dinner plans infront of me without inviting me. And then on one occasion I asked them what that place was and she excitedly said you should join us. One day, her friend asked her to stay after school for help and then she said to me I should join them. And one day we were walking to the subway and she said she was going to get a salad. So then I said bye and then she decided not go get a salad and just said, “I will get a salad with my friend on another day then”. I think she was asking me to get a salad with her, but I didn’t understand at the time.

Also, she would ask me to take the subway home together even if it was for one stop. But when we were on the subway she would count down the stops. One day I was sitting alone and she walked up to me and sat down next to me and said that she has come to bother me. I talked to her for a few minutes and then she said she was bored. But she would pretend she was deeply interested in things I liked and would get excited when I talked about them.

I also would carry her purse for her. She would casually mention things like she likes ballet and this place to eat at. And then even asked me what I was eating for dinner on the day she told me I looked like Edward Cullen. And on the same day she was talking to her friends and I was with them. She said, my roomates are desperately looking for someone for me, I would even go out with a sixty year old man(she is 18).

Two days later, I was hanging out with her bestfriend(her friend that always tries to make me look bad when in front of her). Her best friend out of nowhere asked me if I like her and I said yes. Then I asked her best friend if she liked me and her best friend said she didn’t know. Then she was said, “Why do you like her she is a ditz” Then she asked me if I liked anyone else. I said no and then her best friend strongly encouraged me to ask her out for about ten minutes. She said I should text her asking if she was in Manhattan one day. I received a text like this from the girl I liked two days prior to this asking me if I was in Manhattan. But she lives in Manhattan and never travels to the other boroughs. So I think her best friend recycled the advice she gave to her and gave it to me.

The next day I was on facebook. So a guy she just added on facebook posted something on her wall and she responded to him. Then I saw it as the perfect time to respond to her comment with something really funny. The next day at school she screamed at me, “why did you post on my facebook?” and said she wasn’t talking to me. I don’t know if she was joking but every time I tried to talk to her for a couple days she did this. Now she makes comments like, “the way you walk is annoying” “I hate the nicknames you made up for me” “I am glad you are not enjoying this class” I don’t know if she is joking. Also, when I talk to my friends and she is near, she listens in on the conversation and sometimes laughs when I talk. I tried talking to her a couple days ago and she just flat out ignored my presence.

What does this mean? We haven’t spoken to each other in three weeks. What should I do? I really like her. I am thinking about writing her an email explaining why I thought she liked me(I don’t know if she likes me and I don’t she think she knows I like her), and I posted on her wall to flirt with her. Then I will tell her I am sorry for posting on her wall and I didn’t know she liked that guy(she won’t admit that she likes him to me). Is this a good idea?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like she liked you and was waiting for you to ask her out on a date. When you didn’t, she got annoyed that she’d invested energy in flirting with you. Now, you’ve got some damage control to do if you’re still interested in dating her because she’s in the process of moving on since you didn’t make a move. 😳 If you want to date her, then ask her out. That’s really the best way to know if she wants to go out with you or not. It sounds like you’re spending a lot of time and energy trying to either figure out if she’ll go out with you because you’re afraid of possible rejection if you ask her yourself, or else you’re trying to get her to ask you out 😕 — which isn’t going to happen because she waits for the guy to do the asking. Time to face possible rejection, man up, and do the asking. 😉

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