Alright guys, so here’s my situation. I met this girl in class at the very beginning of our junior year in high school, and I’ve had a crush on her ever since. I’m not trying to exaggerate this at all, but I really do completely adore this girl with everything in me. She has a great personality, we can laugh at stupid things that no one else does, I get butterflies every time she walks up to me and whenever I ask her to hang out I get really nervous and excited waiting on an answer. She’s seriously everything and anything I’ve ever wanted in a girl, all the way down to the way she talks and laughs. Even when I’ve even thought about talking to other girls, I knew I couldn’t go through with or try to pursue a relationship with them because I knew I wouldn’t be fully committed and it wouldn’t be fair to them. So anyways, this girl and I just started our freshman years in college Saturday (we go to the same school and are actually in the same major, it was just a coincidence how that happened) and she instantly started making a ton of new friends and I’ve barely seen her since we got here. I really do want to be with this girl, and I don’t feel like I would be happy or satisfied with anyone else because every time I look at or talk to another girl, it’s just not the same. She just got out of a relationship with another guy she had been dating for 9 months about the end of July, and I’m afraid that with all these new people in her life, another guy is going to come in and sweep her off her feet and I’m going to be stuck on the sidelines watching my heart break. What should I do? Also, since we’ve known each other two years, I’m afraid I might have fallen into the friend zone a little bit, so how should I change that and let her know that I want a serious and long term relationship with her? Any advice would be such a major help, because I don’t know how much longer I can go without telling her how I really feel, because 2 full years is a long time to have such a huge crush on the same person without letting them know.
