[jr317]

I spent three out of four weekends together with the same girl…all while talking to her everyday either by phone or text Last week, she told me she went out and drinks with two different guys and also we had a phone call about how I was getting most of her attention and that she really likes hanging out with me but doesnt want me to get jealous when she goes out with other guys. During this conversation, I didnt not get mad, but was continously told by her that i sound “annoyed”. We were supposed to go out on Friday, but i canceled and her told her it was best to spend a wkd apart and we will talk after. I have not talked to here since Friday afternoon and am wondering if i should even call at ll or see if she makes contact

[April Masini, your AskApril]

It sounds like she’s provoking you. It doesn’t make any sense that she’d tell you about going out with other guys, and then egg you on by telling you not to be jealous, and then that you sound jealous. 😕 My advice is to accept the fact that she’s dating other people, and if you want to compete, she’s making it clear that you have competition! If you don’t, then move on and find someone to date who isn’t as provocative. 😉

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[jr317]

So i haven’t called her since last weekend and i’ve heard nothing back from her. Is not making contact the right thing to do?Part of me wants to not call her again but another part of me wants to make a phone call and work it out to where we can be friends because she was a cool girl and we have a decent amount of mutual friends. Decisions…decisions.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

You have to decide if you want to date her, knowing she’s dating other people, too. If her seeing other guys is a deal breaker, then this isn’t a good relationship for you, but if you really like her, why not compete and try to win her over?

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