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Like your advice very much, it open my eyes. Thank you.

I have a question. I had met this young handsome guy on my way to work, we would meet one or twice a week, but we did not know each other. I had a big crash, but I’m married with kids. I would just glance at him when he passed by, later I noticed that he had some responds, when I looked at him, he would be very happy, but when I did not, he seem very unhappy.

This was going on for months, I was waiting for him to approach me then I could tell him I was married. But he did not do anything. I thought that meant he did not interest at me. But still I liked him so much I need to tell him. So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way.

Why he did not take my letter ?

And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.

He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?

I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?

Thank you.

[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]Why he did not take my letter ?[/quote]

He didn’t want it, and he didn’t want any further contact with you — other than the admiring glances you’d been exchanging.

[quote]And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? [/quote]

Yes.

[quote]Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.[/quote]

No, you shouldn’t do anything, although I’m not sure how you’d hurt him…. 😕

[quote]He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?[/quote]

I don’t know because immaturity can affect people of all ages.

[quote]I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. [/quote]

All kinds of men are attracted to all kinds of women. 😉

[quote]I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?[/quote]

Some men like older women, middle-aged women and younger women. There is someone for everyone! 🙂

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I have a question. I had met this young handsome guy on my way to work, we would meet one or twice a week, but we did not know each other. I had a big crash, but I’m married with kids. I would just glance at him when he passed by, later I noticed that he had some responds, when I looked at him, he would be very happy, but when I did not, he seem very unhappy.

This was going on for months, I was waiting for him to approach me then I could tell him I was married. But he did not do anything. I thought that meant he did not interest at me. But still I liked him so much I need to tell him. So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way.

Why he did not take my letter ?

And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.

He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?

I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?

Thank you.
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[April Masini, your AskApril]

[quote]So one day I wrote a letter and waited for him, when I passed the letter to him, he refused to take it. [/quote]

What did the letter say? And why did you write a letter to him?

[quote]I was shock. I did not understand why he behaved this way. Why he did not take my letter ?[/quote]

He didn’t want the contact with you, so he didn’t take the letter.

[quote]And later he acted the same way again, when I looked at him, he was happy, when not, he was so bad mood. Does that mean he just enjoyed somebody admiring him but not really bother who am I ? [/quote]

Yes.

[quote]Should I do anything, because I did not want to hurt him.[/quote]

No.

[quote]He is not that young, around late twenty or thirty plus, so he is mature and would not be childish, right ?[/quote]

He isn’t acting childish, at least not from what you’ve described.

[quote]I am forty plus, but my look is much younger, still attract man especially young man to stare at me even when I was with my kids, is it because I look motherly or what. I thought only young girl will attract men ? Could you explain why ?[/quote]

Women are attractive at all ages! 😉

I hope that helps!

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