Dear April
I am a 45 years old pharmacist. Very unhappily married.
I met an amazing single mom who happens to teach in my son’s school. She is 12 years younger.
Although my divorce is inevitable and a matter of time ( months ), she doesn’t know that.
The first time we met was in a child’s birthday, a common friend of my son’s and hers. I asked if I could call her and she said as a friend since you’re married.
She brought her son over to play with mine then disappeared for almost two years. I never stopped thinking of her.
The last few weeks she and her son met my wife and son and she brought her kid over again. I sat with them and asked her what do you like to do, where did you travel… Etc.
Afterwards a couple of socializing texts were not answered.
So, I went to the school were she works ( dropped my son then went to the library ).
I asked to talk to her alone for a minute. She refused firmly because she was ‘offended for my wife’.
I left politely.
Then, we met at school by chance and we talked while walking.
I clarified that I know she is a church girl and that my situation ( marriage ) is more complicated than it looks. I said if God forbid ( can you imagine I said that ) my marriage falls apart, I would then approach anybody in a righteous way. She smiled and said she believed me.
I AM IN LOVE WITH HER, FIRST SIGHT.
What should be my next step?
May I register with her church group?
May I buy her and her son a Christmas gift?
