I really don’t know where to start, I was recently engaged to the love of my life. Everything seemed great between us, but then got a little difficult because he lost his over time at work and became stressed out with his money and bills. I lived with him and always asked him to make a list of what the bill were and how much so I could contribute to the household, he would never do it. I know he is old fashion where the guy takes care of things but I work and can help take care of things too. He would tell all his friends, family and anyone he knew that I am his soulmate and how great I am for him and how he is so lucky to have someone like me in his life and couldn’t wait to marry me. Well things seem to get weird after I took him to a venue I had to work. He started talking to a girl on facebook and then they started sexting, pics were sent back and forth. Something that is just wrong and disgusting. The only reason I know this is because I went to take a pic with the phone he used and saw a text and it didn’t settle well with me, so I went and read it all and went to his facebook and read where it all started. I was mad as hell when I saw all this. It took me time to talk to him about it, when I did, he gave some excuse that he was being black mailed by the girl, which I saw no indication of and never believed him in his story. I told him I will not stand for that and deserve better then what had happened and that I would leave if that continued. All things stopped. Well a few weeks ago, I was in my last week of work at my old company and was gettig ready to start with another the following week. I get to work and notice our apartment key were not on my key ring and asked him. Again he gave me some lie on how he want to engrave us on the keys. Didn’t believe that story! Few hours later I get a call from my dad that my belonging were on his front porch. I was so shocked and confused to what was going on. Brandon and I never had a fight in our relationship, we both agreed that we rather talk it out and if one of us got upset or angry, we would say so and say we need to walk away and cool off. We don’t believe in yelling or screaming at each other. Anyways, I tried calling him when this all happened and he wouldn’t answer the phone. I was left in a state of shock and confusing, not understanding what had just happend. I still don’t understand to this day. His entire family loves me and were so happy that we were together. I don’t understand how he could say and feel I was his soulmate and then kick me out and never talk to me. I have been so deeply wounded to the soul by this. Why would he do this? Please help me to understand.
