I think you may be focusing on the wrong person here. His behavior isn’t that confusing. He’s just trying to keep you in the game without committing. I think, however, that you are not clear about what you want, and the confusion you’re feeling is coming from yourself. 😉 If you want a committed relationship, I don’t think you’re going to get it from him. And if that is what you want, I suggest you cut bait and move on. 😉
If you want him, and are willing to forgo commitment and probably marriage, then you have to understand who he is, and find a way to be okay with that. But the choice is yours. When you try to turn someone who’s being very clear, into someone else, you’re setting up a confusing situation. Usually people do this because they don’t want to be alone. It’s understandable that breaking up is painful and being single when you don’t want to be single is uncomfortable. But it’s a lot worse to stay with someone how’s not compatible with you and your goals than it is to be single and look for Mr. Right. 😉
Hope that helps!
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