So. I’ve been with my fiancee for 2yrs. We are both very in love but… He suggested since we have been living together almost our whole relationship and i never lived alone, before we get married we should take a break/space. Now its not some normal girls week out thing. He asked me to move out of our home for a few months. Wtf? But, I obliged because I do believe in giving ppl what they want. Still, together, sharing finaces. But living in different home about 20 mins from each other. I know this is bizzare to most sane folk but, nothing about our relationship is normal. He suggested this after all the wedding planning and talking, and it sucks. …I moved 3000 miles across the country to be with him, because we were in love. I built a life and adjusted to a COMPLETELY different life then what I was use to for this man. I believe in love and I believe in myself, but I don’t know if i believe he’s being honest with himself or me. This man might not be as commited to a forever love like I am, orrrrrrr he could be honestly needing his artist space and need time to reevaluate, and value what he has. Oh…. we are allowed to see other ppl, but no sexual contact. That has me a little antsy as well. I havent been on a date in ha 2 yrs. So could someone tell me wtf is going on? I’m fed up with the drama and need someone to cut through the crap and tell me whats going on. PS, he says he wants to get married after we do this break thing. But, we’ve been though the same song and dance before. I see myself being married to this dweeb and he drags his ass. A very familiar tango. 😆 PSPS: how long should a woman wait for a guy before it becomes madness?
