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    Anonymous
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    I’m a Capricorn woman, a very capricorn woman at that. Recently I have moved back home from college and am starting to rebuild a “support system” here, a group of friends i can count on. I’ve found a rare and enlightening friendship with a Sagittarius woman. For some reason I was drawn to her from the first night to be myself. which I do very rarely, seeing as I’m an extreme introvert, and don’t like to give anyone any insight into my weaknesses. Now this new friend of mine has a younger brother, who is less than a year younger than me, and he’s SCORPIO.

    the connection we have is unparalleled to any I have felt in a while. Very rarely do i get worked up over a guy. Most of the time guys bore me, because in my silently cocky Capricorn ways, I find them to easy to obtain. But this boy, I can’t shake. The first time we met he quickly added me on facebook, but then later that night, when he had patched things up with his girlfriend of a year he deleted my post! Never in my life has someone been able to lead me into doing something so risky and me not getting the results I want.

    Our first conversation was him peeking up quietly from his phone and genuinely saying “you remind me of myself, what zodiac sign are you?” yes. so not only did he hook me with the straight forward declaration of our connection, but he tied it back to one of my favorite subjects….astrology. Even recalling these little bits of interaction i’ve had with him is giving me butterflies. Anytime we are in a room together we somehow gravitate much closer than i find comfortable with anybody else. With him I long for him to touch me. I’ve been fighting myself for weeks, not eating, and driving myself insane with the what if’s. I just don’t know what to do…I was thinking about telling him my weird feeling of connection towards him the next time he’s “single”….just looking for insight. As we all know nobody but ME knows how head over heels I am for this kid, but i reallly need help 🙁

    #19688
    kai
    Member #56

    I notice that you have placed your question in the forum for Guest Writers and Advice Column Contributors.

    [b]This is not in the forum where April answers readers questions. [/b]

    If you want to get a response from April, please repost your question in the proper forum, the Q & A Advice Forum

    #20137
    ankit
    Member #99,055

    I think this is just an infatuation towards him or the chances are that as he just added you on facebook but soon after the patch-up with her ex ,he deleted you,your heart and mind is not going to accept this that’s why your need to get that kid for you become strong . As you already said that he is a kid, then why you are thinking as if he is just a kid .Be patient and get yourself busy in some work .

    #32012
    AskApril Masini
    Keymaster

    Let me know how things are going for you? 😉

    #51725
    Sally
    Member #382,674

    What you’re feeling isn’t crazy, but it is bigger than the situation right now. A lot of this spark is coming from mystery, timing, and the fact that he’s unavailable. That can light someone up fast, especially when you’re rebuilding your life and finally letting yourself feel seen again. It doesn’t mean it’s fake it just means it’s amplified.
    Here’s the hard part. He has a girlfriend. Even if there’s a connection, even if the energy feels electric, that line matters. Telling him how you feel while he’s with someone else won’t bring relief. It’ll likely bring embarrassment, guilt, or more confusion.

    Right now, the strongest thing you can do is nothing. Eat. Sleep. Pull your focus back to yourself. Let the feeling settle instead of feeding it. If he ever becomes truly single and still shows interest, you can speak then calmly, without pouring your whole heart out.
    Intensity doesn’t always mean destiny. Sometimes it just means timing and chemistry collided. Protect your heart. You don’t lose power by waiting.

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