[ashleytoms]

met this great guy online. been seeing each other for two mths. We call and text every day and see each other almost every weekend. he blew me away last weekend. I had to bed to see him sat. so i go over cause i want to talk beause i have been getting the brush off vibe for two weeks, so i get there and he says i don’t love you and the spark isn;t there and i want to see other people. I’m in shock. I say i don’t expct him to be in love with me after 2 months and if he was that was weird. he said he felt like things move a little to fast. so anyway so we talk i leave and text a friend only i ended up texting him and he says oh replacing me already i said no but you did. so he callls me and i;m like not a good time right now. text each other a bit and then he says he has to take a shower this is while i’m spilling my heart out and he is breaking down. anyway he ends up going on a date . then i find out he may have been cheating on me way befor this from my son. so i blow up text a few times then go to bed, he texts me at 6am wants me to come over i say ok. spend the day and night and go to work monday then i text him and ask him if i;m still his hone and he says yes, he is going out of town this weekend so i have a friend that asked me to go out. i ask him if he care cause it;s a guy and he says no go have fun just let him know if he trys anything and he will kick his ass. I’m confused as to what is going on

[April Masini, your AskApril]

I can help you with your confusion. 🙂 Here’s what’s going on. He’s not that into you. You want him to be. He’s not. Don’t fool yourself into think otherwise. He told you he’s not interested – don’t ignore him. His behavior matches what he said. Don’t ignore that. Instead, if you want a relationship with someone who IS into you, then you should find someone else. He’s not that guy. 😉

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[ashleytoms]

This totally came out of the blue. Though and we where fine Friday night and then he does this on sat. then we have been texting each other off and on all week. Then the night before i text him and say good night and he texts me back and says good night baby 😡 then today i’m at an interview and i text him and i say ugh. I’m bored. He says where r you. I said at my interview waiting. I said where would you like me to be. He said with me 😀 Then i didn’t text him back for a bit and when i was done i said put me in your pocket. He just laughed. So do yuu see why i’m confused? I understand what your saying but that is just not the feeling i get. How can you be so into some one one day and not the next?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

A guy who is interested in you one moment or one day, and then not the next day, isn’t really ready for a serious relationship. He just wants to have fun. With you sometimes. Sometimes with someone else. He’s into you when he’s into you and he’s not into you when he’s not into you.

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