[emmovienights]

I hang out with my crush a lot mostly movie nights. We go out with a group sometimes, but often it’s just the two of us. During the film I’ve caught him looking at me five or six times when he thinks I’m not watching. He never stares aggressively it’s these quick, soft looks that make my heart flip. He also has this weird habit of copying how I sit: if I curl my legs up, he does too; if I lean forward, he mirrors me a minute later. It feels oddly intimate, but he never says anything.
A few other small things make me hopeful: he smiles like he’s trying to hide it after he looks at me, and once he tucked an errant strand of my hair behind my ear without making a scene. Still, when the movie ends he’s friendly and casual no big gestures, no obvious flirting. I’ve thought about leaning in, but I’m terrified of making it awkward or misreading friendly behavior for something more. I want to kiss him so badly sometimes, but I don’t want to ruin our easy, fun hangouts if he doesn’t feel the same.
I haven’t tried dropping any heavy hints I’ll make more eye contact now and then, and I laugh at his jokes, but I freeze up when the moment could actually happen. Part of me thinks he’s shy and wants me to make the first move; another part worries he’s just being nice and I’m inventing something that isn’t there.
Has anyone else read body language like this correctly? What are the clearest signs that someone wants to kiss you but is too nervous to say it? How do I create a moment that isn’t awkward a subtle but clear invitation without risking the friendship if I’m wrong? Should I try a small test (closer seating, soft eye contact, a light touch) or just be direct and say, “I kind of want to kiss you”? What worked for you?

[Ethan Morales]

From what you’ve described, a lot of his body language does suggest interest. The repeated glances, mirroring your movements, and small intimate gestures like tucking your hair behind your ear are often signs someone is emotionally or physically drawn to you. People who are shy or cautious sometimes keep their behavior subtle, which seems to match his casual friendliness after the movie.
Your instincts about him potentially waiting for a signal are reasonable. If he’s hesitant to make a bold move, he might be hoping you’ll make the first step. Subtle cues like laughing at jokes, holding eye contact, or leaning slightly closer can indicate he’s comfortable with intimacy but unsure how far to push.
Creating a moment doesn’t have to be dramatic. Small, low-pressure gestures can test the waters without risking the friendship: sitting slightly closer than usual, letting your hand brush against his casually, or maintaining lingering eye contact while smiling. These are subtle signals that can make your interest clear without forcing anything.
Directness can work too, but it doesn’t have to be heavy. Something like, “I feel like I want to kiss you would that be okay?” is honest but gentle. It communicates your feelings while giving him room to respond, and avoids misreading cues or building anxiety.
Ultimately, trust your instincts and gauge his reactions. If he reciprocates your small advances with warmth or mirrored behavior, that’s a strong indicator he’s interested. Taking a thoughtful, respectful step either subtle or slightly direct can clarify where you both stand without jeopardizing the fun, easy vibe you already have.

[Sally]

Girl, he likes you. Nobody mirrors your body language like that unless they’re tuned in. The hair thing sealed it. He’s probably just shy or worried you don’t feel the same. You don’t need to make a big move, just give him a little space to meet you halfway. Sit closer, let the tension build, and if he doesn’t flinch when you touch his arm, that’s your answer.

[Mia Caldwell]

It sounds like he likes you the looks, smiles, and how he copies your moves all show interest, just maybe he’s shy.

Try sitting closer, holding eye contact, or lightly touching his arm to see how he reacts. If he stays close or smiles, he’s probably into you too. When it feels right, you can say something simple like, “I kinda want to kiss you right now.”

[PassionSeeker]

He’s definitely giving you signs that he’s into you. The way he mirrors your movements and looks at you those aren’t just friendly gestures, they’re intimate signals. A light touch or subtle move might break the ice without causing too much awkwardness. If you feel it’s right, go for it lean in a little closer, maybe initiate some soft eye contact, and see if he reciprocates. It’s a risk, but if you’re both feeling the chemistry, it might work.

[Nina A]

You can’t find clarity while you’re trapped in guessing games.

What you’re describing sounds like two people orbiting each other, each afraid to make gravity known. His glances, the mirroring, the quiet touches those are signs of interest, but they’re also signs of hesitation. He may be waiting for you to show that it’s safe to move closer. The truth is, connection always carries risk. If you wait for certainty, you’ll miss the moment; if you reach out gently, you’ll at least know where you stand.

You don’t need a grand confession. The next time you’re sitting close, let your body language speak first: lean in a little, hold his gaze, let the silence stretch. If he leans back in, you’ll know. If not, you’ve lost nothing but a moment of wonder.

Love often begins in small acts of courage. Sometimes the heart needs you to risk the comfort of maybe for the truth of yes or no.

[Ask April Masini]

The only real sign someone wants to kiss you is when they actually lean in and try to kiss you. Everything else is guesswork. And out of all your choices, there’s really only one that guarantees things won’t get awkward for you, creating the moment while hoping he takes the hint.

One more tip, wear lip gloss. Men notice it. It draws their eyes and makes them want to kiss you even more.

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