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    bgirl0727
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    I have a best friend that I text all day and usually talk on the phone a few times a week. we tried the dating thing but I had to move to continue going to college and he said he couldn’t do the long distance. But something about him makes me so happy and I could see myself with him for a long time. However after we broke up he started dating this other girl but he still talked to me. And now he’s single again and we still always talk and when i’m in town he wants to hang out and stuff. So i wrote a letter expaining how I feel about him. Should I give it to him? what if it ruins our friendship? I mean when he is drunk he calls me at night and tells me he really likes me and will say he loves me. He doesn’t ever remember the next day but the fact that he said it means something right? I want my chance to see if he is my soul mate?

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    You’re [i]already[/i] getting your chance to see if he’s your soulmate, but you don’t like the answer, so you’re looking for ways to force the question to get the answer you want. It won’t work. 😳

    You dated and broke up, and now he’s dating other women off and on. He doesn’t want a long distance relationship with you — and you’re pinning your hopes on his drunk dialing. 😥

    My advice is that you move on and find someone who wants to date you. 😉 It’s really hard to be available to other men if you’ve got your hopes set on someone who’s not just out of town, but not interested. 😮 I never recommend men and women conduct friendships because someone always feels more than the other and this creates confusion, miscommunication and eventually heartache. Let him go and move on — you’ll be happier with a man who wants to date you, then hoping, praying and even chasing someone who doesn’t. 😉

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    bgirl0727
    Member #195,830

    yea your right. But he said he wants to try in the future when im older and stuff. But since it’s not set in stone should I not count on that either?

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    Right. 😉

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