[Belle]

Hi April, I’ve been dating someone who is great in private but avoids introducing me to friends or family. How long is reasonable to wait before this becomes a red flag, and how should I bring it up without sounding insecure?

[April Masini, your AskApril]

Hi Belle!

How long have you two been dating? By private, what do you mean? Do you only have private meetups? If yes, what do these private meetups consist of? Is he just not showing you off to his friends and family, and everything else is fine?

The fact that you are asking the question leads me to believe you are not happy about the situation: is he aware of how you feel? Has he asked you to be exclusive?

If you can answer these questions, I’ll be able to give you a clear and more personalized response.

[Belle]

We’ve been dating for 6 months and he never introduce me to his friends and family. We only have private meet-ups and I don’t have courage to ask him why he didn’t introduce me to his friends or family. I’m thinking to break-up with him because I feel that he’s not proud of having me.

[Mia Monita]

Hi Belle, Maybe your boyfriend wants a private relationship to avoid judgement from other people, but if you want to be exclusive, then ask your boyfriend if it is possible that your relationship would be expose so you both meet the family and friend of each other. If he really loves you, he will definitely agree if you demand this matter. If he don’t agree, then go ahead and stay away from him.

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