You’ve invested deeply in someone who isn’t meeting you halfway, and that’s painful. She’s been honest that she needs space, that her trust was shaken, and that she’s unsure about continuing the relationship. Whether this is an excuse or genuine hesitation, the outcome is the same she isn’t ready to move forward with you.
Trust can only be rebuilt when both people are willing. Right now, she’s keeping her distance while you’re holding on, hoping she’ll come back. Continuing to spend time with her as “friends” will only keep you stuck and prolong the hurt.
The best step now is to respect her words and give yourself the chance to heal. Step back completely, focus on your own goals, and reclaim your confidence. When someone wants to rebuild a connection, they make it clear. If she truly values you, she’ll reach out when she’s ready—but don’t wait around for that. Value yourself enough to walk away and open space for someone who chooses you without hesitation.
