im going to be married in a few months and last weekend was our bachelor party, which was in vegas combined with the bachelorette party, although they werent held at the same place.
The girls had a blast at a Night CLub and my fiance got pretty wasted (as she should have, being it was her party) and danced until she was about to throw up and ended up going home. (sounds like a blast, right?)
well, since we got back ive been tortured by the thought of her dancing with other guys…im usually a very confident, trusting guy and i trust her more than anything, but its just the thought of her grinding up on another dude puts a pit in my stomach. i dont know how close she danced to them and i hate that i feel this way, but i cant stop feeling anxous about it. im pretty sure i am blowing it out of proportion …i sound ridiculous even writing this, but i cant seem to shake off this weird feeling of jealousy.
is this something i need to communicate to her? or should i just try to hopefully snap out of it
(ps. ive had issues with anxiety in the past, so overthinking and ruminating seem to be an unavoidable flaw of mine)
