So i have been texting and flirting with this friend of mine for a while but it was nothing serious and i never thought of dating her until few weeks back, she suddenly told me that instead of testing each other and wasting time, we should really get to know each other better and see if we are suitable.
Some background information on her, has been single so far in her life, she’s 27 this year. Very introverted, conservative and quiet girl, who prefers to keep a low profile. From what i know, probably has had zero or few suitors.
After what she told me, i asked her out and the first date went quite well. I ordered some flowers to be delivered to her workplace a few days after that but that backfired a bit, as she told me she wasn’t quite ready to handle all the questioning from her colleagues. She wasn’t angry but felt a bit rushed.
We went on a second date, which was still quite ok, at least i didn’t find her feeling uncomfortable or awkward and we were chatting quite well.
But the next few days, she started to respond lesser and lesser to my text and when i ask her what was going on, she told me she needed more time, don’t want to rush into anything and wanted to understand each other before making any decisions and it might be better to just text and not go out?
I asked her whether it was because she felt like i was rushing things and she felt pressurized? But she denied it and told me not to think too much. I asked her whether was there still any mutual interest but she did not reply to that.
So what do you think? Is it a classic “Not-interested-and-wanna-let-the-guy-down-gently” case or She just isn’t used to a guy suddenly getting into her life
